Comments on: Grief http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief/ Just another WordPress weblog Thu, 28 Aug 2008 23:22:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: NousaMe http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief/#comment-227 NousaMe Wed, 30 Mar 2005 19:55:29 +0000 http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief#comment-227 I've been waiting for you to start talking about Bec, because it's a good sign - one of the first steps towards making sense of things, finding a way to articulate what's churning away inside. Will contact you to proffer hugs and a little Comedy Fest action. Try applying Critical Theory to Puppetry of the Penis, if you may :) I’ve been waiting for you to start talking about Bec, because it’s a good sign - one of the first steps towards making sense of things, finding a way to articulate what’s churning away inside.

Will contact you to proffer hugs and a little Comedy Fest action. Try applying Critical Theory to Puppetry of the Penis, if you may :)

]]> By: liah http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief/#comment-226 liah Fri, 18 Mar 2005 23:36:50 +0000 http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief#comment-226 Hi Aimee, I wish there was something I could say to make it all better. But I am told that it gets easier. A friend who lost her father told me that while she has sad moments sometimes, she eventually accepted his death, and her memories of him are no longer painful. Glad to see you posting again. Hi Aimee,
I wish there was something I could say to make it all better. But I am told that it gets easier. A friend who lost her father told me that while she has sad moments sometimes, she eventually accepted his death, and her memories of him are no longer painful.

Glad to see you posting again.

]]> By: mnky http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief/#comment-225 mnky Tue, 15 Mar 2005 21:15:37 +0000 http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief#comment-225 Ms Hussy - here is what works for me with painful episodes in life - hold it all in, supress it and supress it and force it deep deep down and then pile a heap of weight on it then lock it away deep deep down in your heart never let it out or consider it ever - never contemplate it or discuss it or ever think about it - it works for me - now if I could just control my alcoholism and fits of anger - seriously some things change you as a person maybe this is one of those you may have slightly altered the path you are to take in life - things may never get back to what they were - things change and people change - missed you and your posts Ms Hussy - here is what works for me with painful episodes in life - hold it all in, supress it and supress it and force it deep deep down and then pile a heap of weight on it then lock it away deep deep down in your heart never let it out or consider it ever - never contemplate it or discuss it or ever think about it - it works for me - now if I could just control my alcoholism and fits of anger - seriously some things change you as a person maybe this is one of those you may have slightly altered the path you are to take in life - things may never get back to what they were - things change and people change - missed you and your posts

]]> By: Tess http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief/#comment-224 Tess Mon, 14 Mar 2005 05:43:37 +0000 http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief#comment-224 Let it out. Here, somewhere else, someone else, but let it out. These things are too big and painful and too heavy to carry alone and on the inside. Let it out. Here, somewhere else, someone else, but let it out.

These things are too big and painful and too heavy to carry alone and on the inside.

]]> By: Sami http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief/#comment-223 Sami Fri, 11 Mar 2005 07:15:19 +0000 http://www.intergalactic-hussy.net/grief#comment-223 Aimee, I'm so glad to see you write something here again. I check here daily to see if you've written anything new. I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. I can see how difficult it must be for you to try to cope with her loss with her memory so fresh at hand. Don't be afraid to talk about it though. I think a lot of times expressing how you feel about it lets it out of your head and helps you to deal with your feelings better. As a writer, I'm sure you get that. Perhaps you don't want to express your feelings because you don't want to let them go because letting them go might mean that you have to let her go. And you're not ready for that and not ready to stop grieving. This post is a first step for you. You should write more like it, even if they never see anyone's eyes but your own. Write down those letters to Becky and get them out of your heart. Maybe you could symbolically send them to her by burning or tearing them and then releasing the pieces to the wind. Sounds kind of cheesy, but it might be the kind of release that you need. Keeping you in my thoughts, Sami Aimee,

I’m so glad to see you write something here again. I check here daily to see if you’ve written anything new.

I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend. I can see how difficult it must be for you to try to cope with her loss with her memory so fresh at hand. Don’t be afraid to talk about it though. I think a lot of times expressing how you feel about it lets it out of your head and helps you to deal with your feelings better. As a writer, I’m sure you get that. Perhaps you don’t want to express your feelings because you don’t want to let them go because letting them go might mean that you have to let her go. And you’re not ready for that and not ready to stop grieving.

This post is a first step for you. You should write more like it, even if they never see anyone’s eyes but your own. Write down those letters to Becky and get them out of your heart. Maybe you could symbolically send them to her by burning or tearing them and then releasing the pieces to the wind. Sounds kind of cheesy, but it might be the kind of release that you need.

Keeping you in my thoughts,
Sami

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